Tucker Carlson brought this home in an interview he did yesterday in which he got 'bothered' in a public restroom when he was a high school student and then got a buddy and went back to beat up the guy before he was arrested. Most engaged in this kind of sex would probably have preferred socially supported venues for relationship and sexual development - in the clubs, restaurants, public places galore that the heterosexual world has to walk together, to talk, to hug, to kiss, and to 'do it.'Īndrew Sullivan has much better dexterity with this subject than I do - but it is disgusting that while so many are now cringing at the thought of gay man having tearoom sex that they are at the same time so obsessive about trying to stop same sex marriage between committed individuals. I will avoid today discussion of the reasons why so many men chose to look for sex partners in public bathrooms, gyms, and the like over the last few decades.